This year has been a lot, to say the absolute least. So, as the end of 2020 approaches, it’s time to reflect on a painful, tumultuous year and what we learned from it. While there’s a lot of heavy stuff to think about, we should also hold tight the moments of happiness and success we had this year — and figure out how to be happy in 2021.
Finding what will spark your desires can be overwhelming, which is why we curated a list of the best activities for each zodiac sign to embrace in order to find happiness during the holidays. Think of it as your cosmic “Ode to Joy.”
Aries
March 21 – April 19
Vision boarding your dreams will motivate you to live your best life and help you learn how to be happy. It’ll also help you to align yourself with your innate visions — the ones you’ve never shared with anyone, but have always wanted to achieve. Once you put it on paper, your goals will be within reach. This project will inspire you and allow you to see that your wishes can come true.
Taurus
April 20 – May 20
Focus on yourself now. Implementing self-care into your daily regimen will make you feel like a trillion bucks and also make you see how important you are (sometimes you forget that you’re #1 in your life as you often put others first). A warm meditative bath, nap, and at-home mani-pedi will zest up your life. Take care of yourself.
Gemini
May 21 – June 20
Instead of giving gifts, start an old fashioned chain letter via email with friends that states what you each love about the person you’re sending the email to. Want to really go old school? Send it as snail mail instead! Not only will this bring you closer with your squad, but it will make you shed a tear knowing how much you are loved by the peeps you care about the most in the world.
Cancer
June 21 – July 22
Prepare a decadent feast for yourself with your favorite foods. If you’re quarantining with family or friends, then invite them to partake in the amazing meal you’ve made. Cooking in the kitchen will lessen your anxieties, heal your heart and mind, cure boredom, and warm your belly with amazing goodness. You can even get some tips from Selena Gomez’s HBO Max show “Selena + Chef.” You’ll find happiness in sharing your food with those you love.
Leo
July 23 – August 22
Real talk: You have a tendency to go overboard with decorations and giving gifts over the holidays. This year, you’ll find that keeping the seasonal festivities simple and low key is perfect for your current mood. It will give you time to decompress, as you’ll be worrying less about tinsel and more about what’s truly important. You’ll still get the joy of giving gifts to those you love, but with half the stress.
Virgo
August 23 – September 22
You are always working and take on the responsibilities of three people (which can be overwhelming because you’re one person). All the more reason why you’ll be super stoked to veg out. This will require you to turn your phone off and completely unwind. It will feel nice to not have any stresses and worries weighing on your shoulders for once. Take solace in being unplugged, maybe even take a walk in nature and reconnect with your surroundings.
Libra
September 23 – October 22
Reaching out via Skype to your family and spending quality virtual time with them this holiday season will make you very happy. It will feel nice to connect with your brood. They’ll bring you comfort that will make you feel safe and sound or like a snug lil bug. If you can’t connect with your fam, then your besties will make you feel wonderful and amazing. You’re craving connection, so being virtual can be hard, but try to remain grateful for the methods we have to stay together even when we’re far apart. And, make plans for in-person reunions once it’s safe.
Scorpio
October 23 – November 21
Ban criticism and negativity from others — especially yourself. If someone throws neg energy your way, ignore their texts or comments. Distance yourself from all the drama in your life. Don’t let anyone (or yourself) rain on your parade this holiday season. Embrace a positive mindset and make sure you surround yourself with good vibes. Being around happiness will fill you up with pure joy.
Sagittarius
November 22 – December 21
You’re always planning another adventure and plotting the ways to align yourself with the next best thing. While you often live in the now, your mind isn’t always fully present. Don’t think about anything but the moment you’re in. Focus solely on what others are saying, the people you’re with, your emotions, and nothing else. Savoring time will help you find personal satisfaction within yourself. It sounds cheesy, but mindfulness can really help your mental state.
Capricorn
December 22 – January 19
We all can get lost in our world and take the simple things for life for granted. But, you know how important it is to show appreciation where it’s due. Making a gratitude list will let your reflective spirit see on paper how lucky and loved you are. You’ll be more grateful for all the wonderful things and people that you have in your life.
Aquarius
January 20 – February 18
Nothing will give you more joy than giving back to others this holiday season. Organizing a food or clothing drive with your school and local community will boost your humanitarian spirit. And, it will inspire others to lend a helping hand as well. You can also start a GoFundMe account for a cause you feel extra committed to. Be the change you seek.
Pisces
February 19 – March 20
While you may not be able to see your friends IRL, you’ll totally have fun chatting with your whole crew on FaceTime. Connecting and laughing with your squad will warm your heart. It’ll also allow you to see how much you are loved. Not only that, but the plans your friend group make for the future will give you all something to look forward to. When you’re feeling lonely or scared, return to thinking about those plans and plotting details of your reunion. It will keep your mind bust and your heart happy.
